{"id":351,"date":"2016-07-02T16:17:54","date_gmt":"2016-07-02T16:17:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/?p=351"},"modified":"2016-07-02T16:58:17","modified_gmt":"2016-07-02T16:58:17","slug":"finding-a-friend-in-need","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/?p=351","title":{"rendered":"Finding a Friend in Need"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Blessed are the poor in spirit for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em>Mathew 5:3<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em>Being in need is not a bad thing. In fact it&#8217;s essential to our spiritual journey.<\/p>\n<p>Robbie is my friend. I met him a few years ago at a men\u2019s conference at Myrtle Beach. After the conference was over, I discovered he was homeless. \u00a0This was very humbling for me to find out.<\/p>\n<p>Over the years, Robbie has attended our small group and our church. We&#8217;ve meet his niece and he has become very dear to us.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s had a stable place to live a few times, but he mostly rotates between \u00a0the Oliver Gospel Mission and an abandoned building \u00a0he calls the &#8216;Camp site&#8217;. He gets work when he can.<\/p>\n<p>For all he&#8217;s going through, I&#8217;ve never heard him complain.<\/p>\n<p>We communicate mostly through facebook messaging when he&#8217;s at the library, or when he can find a WIFI hot spot for his track phone.<\/p>\n<p>One afternoon, a few months ago, \u00a0we agreed to hang out for a while. I picked him up at the library and we went to Lizard&#8217;s Thicket, a local restaurant.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOrder whatever you want Robbie,\u201d I said as I slid in the booth across from him.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou\u2019re not getting anything?\u201d he asked.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo, I\u2019ve already eaten.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Robbie closed up the menu. Even though he hadn\u2019t eaten since an early morning breakfast at the mission, he thought it impolite to eat in front of me.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAlright, I\u2019ll get some fried okra,\u201d I agreed.<\/p>\n<p>Robbie grinned and opened the menu back up.<\/p>\n<p>Later, as we were eating, I asked Robbie how his day was going. \u201cIt\u2019s a beautiful day and I\u2019m sitting here eating fried chick and okra with you, how could it not be a great day?\u201d he chuckled.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDo they let you keep your stuff at the mission?\u201d I asked, as I forked a couple of okra.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNot really,\u201d he replied.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSo where do you keep your things?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I have a few \u00a0clothes at the campsite, but \u00a0my stuff\u2019s in a \u00a0book bag in your back seat.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Wow! Most of Robbie\u2019s earthly possessions were in my back seat. This was \u00a0inconceivable to me. My friend was acutely aware of his need in a way I\u2019d never experienced.<\/p>\n<p>Being in need is actually something I\u2019ve avoided; partly because of pride, but mostly because of the vulnerability of having to depend on someone else.<\/p>\n<p>Spiritually speaking, being needy is an absolute necessity. I can\u2019t earn my way to heaven. I need the death and sacrifice of Jesus to blot out my sins and grant me access to heaven. But I also need Him moment by moment as I seek to live a Christ-like life.<\/p>\n<p>Jesus said, \u201cBlessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.\u201d Poor in spirit means embracing our spiritual poverty. We must know we need Jesus.<\/p>\n<p>Not only do we <strong><em>need<\/em><\/strong> the death of Jesus to be acceptable to a holy God, but we <strong><em>need<\/em><\/strong> to depend upon the life of Jesus in us to live moment by moment. There\u2019s only one person who can live a true Christ-like life and it\u2019s not us, it\u2019s Jesus in us.<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a> The Sermon on the Mount teaches us this.<\/p>\n<p>The word &#8220;saved&#8221;, used in Romans 5:8-10, not only means delivered (as in rescued from eternal separation from God), but it also means to be healed and made whole. We are to continually embrace \u00a0our need of Jesus, knowing that apart from Him we can do nothing. <a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Challenge:<\/strong> Think about an area of your life you&#8217;re still trying to live in \u00a0your own abilities. Take a moment and embrace your need for Jesus in this area. \u00a0Hand&#8217;s open, surrender it \u00a0to Him.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-354\" src=\"http:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/hands-247138_960_720-1.jpg\" alt=\"hands-247138_960_720 (1)\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/hands-247138_960_720-1.jpg 960w, https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/hands-247138_960_720-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/hands-247138_960_720-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/hands-247138_960_720-1-272x182.jpg 272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Lord, I\u2019m sorry for the times I haven\u2019t fully trusted you and tried to live on my own. I need you desperately. Please show me when I forget my great need for you.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>By the way. today is Robbie&#8217;s birthday. If you know him, wish him a happy one. He is a blessing to many.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> John 15:5<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Blessed are the poor in spirit for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Mathew 5:3 \u00a0Being in need is not a bad thing. In fact it&#8217;s essential to our spiritual journey. Robbie is my friend. I met him a few years ago at a men\u2019s conference at Myrtle Beach. After the conference was over, I &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/?p=351\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Finding a Friend in Need<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":352,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[132],"tags":[141,137,133,144,140,134,142,143,139,145,138,136,135],"class_list":["post-351","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-our-great-need","tag-christ-indwells-us","tag-depending-on-god","tag-homeless","tag-hungry","tag-in-christ","tag-john-155","tag-matthew-53","tag-need","tag-poor-in-spirit","tag-pride","tag-realizing-our-need","tag-romans-58-10","tag-saved"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/351","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=351"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/351\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/352"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=351"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=351"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=351"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}