{"id":3877,"date":"2022-03-21T11:34:37","date_gmt":"2022-03-21T15:34:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/?p=3877"},"modified":"2023-02-27T22:32:54","modified_gmt":"2023-02-28T03:32:54","slug":"kept-day-and-night-even-when-we-feel-unprotected-2-2-2-2-2-2-2-2-2-2-2-2-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/?p=3877","title":{"rendered":"Rhythms: IN (The Joy of Putting Others First)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Story<\/h3>\n

A while back, a grey cloud settled over my heart. It blew in suddenly and lingered for a while. My wife confirmed my outward mood matched my inward discouragement. She said it seemed as if someone had thrown a wet blanket on my heart to try and steal my joy.\u00a0 As I shuffled around, what she said resonated, but I had nothing inside to fight it.<\/em><\/p>\n

Frankly, the last thing I wanted to do was read scripture, but I knew I needed truth. I asked God to guide me and looked\u00a0at some verses on joy.<\/em><\/p>\n

As I read, I was struck by how much Paul cared about the joy of others.<\/em><\/p>\n

He wrote to the Corinthians that he was working for their joy.<\/em><\/p>\n

But\u00a0I call God as witness to my soul, that\u00a0to spare you I did not come again to\u00a0Corinth.<\/span> \u00a0<\/sup>Not that we lord it over your faith, but are workers with you for your joy; for in your faith you are standing firm (II Corinthians 1:23-24<\/strong> NASB).<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

And to the Philippians, Paul wrote that he\u2019d continue in the fight for their progress and joy in the faith. <\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/sup><\/span>Convinced of this, I know that I will remain and continue with you all for your progress and joy in the faith,<\/span>\u00a0<\/sup>so that your proud confidence in me may abound in Christ Jesus through my coming to you again (Philippians 1:25-26<\/strong> NASB).<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

What struck me was how committed Paul was to being sure the believers at Corinth and Philippi had a growing joy. He seemed to be equating joy with their progress in the faith. And he was willing to fight for them to have it.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Continuing, I read what Paul wrote in Philippians 2 about considering other’s interest above our own. As these words settled in, a spark of joy flickered in my heart. Clarity grew and I began to understand some of what had killed my joy.<\/em><\/p>\n

Looking back, I can’t even remember exactly what I was going through, but I had fixated on me and how I was doing. Unaware of the shift in my heart, I had taken up the familiar position of focusing on my own desires for ease of circumstances and comfort. My intense concern for me had zapped my joy.<\/em><\/p>\n

Being Poured Out<\/h3>\n

But even if I am being\u00a0poured out as a drink offering upon\u00a0the sacrifice and service of your faith, I rejoice and share my joy with you all.<\/em>\u00a0<\/em>\u00a0<\/sup><\/em><\/strong><\/span>You too,\u00a0I urge you, rejoice in the same way and share your joy with me (Philippians 2:17-18<\/strong> NASB).<\/span> <\/em><\/p>\n

In light of what I learned in my “me focused” funk, what Paul wrote in the above verse is the exact opposite of where my heart was. Paul was selflessly willing to have his life blood poured out for the sake of others.\u00a0<\/p>\n

To get a better understanding of what Paul meant by a drink offering, Old Testament passages mention them, along with other offerings, as sacrifices to the Lord.[2]<\/p>\n

Paul was consumed with his relationship with Christ and sharing it with others. He had no fear of death because dying meant more of Jesus.<\/p>\n

In the meantime, while God delayed calling him home, his life was characterized by a joy which flowed from his faith.<\/p>\n

And here’s the interesting fact, which is undeniable when we study Paul’s life. His joy grew, and seemed to overflow, when he served others.<\/p>\n

\u00a0Paul held loosely to his life for the sake of building others up. This kind of sacrificial love was not burdensome to him. It filled his heart with a contagious joy.<\/p>\n

I ask myself if I’m willing to sacrifice what I want, and even my own life for the sake of God\u2019s kingdom and the spreading of His love?<\/p>\n

This seems to be the call for us all.\u00a0I urge you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship (Romans 12:1<\/strong> NASB).<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

But this sacrificial attitude of putting others didn’t originate with Paul. Following are the verses which sparked joy in my heart from the story above. \u00a0<\/sup><\/em><\/strong>Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus, who, as He already existed in the form of God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but emptied Himself by taking the form of a bond-servant and being born in the likeness of men. And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death: death on a cross (Philippians 2:5-9<\/strong> NASB).<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Jesus\u2019 example<\/h3>\n

On the night before He was crucified, Jesus washed the disciples\u2019 feet (including Judas\u2019 and Peter\u2019s, whom He knew would betray and deny Him).<\/p>\n

Afterwards, He told them, \u201cA\u00a0new commandment I give to you,\u00a0that you love one another,\u00a0even as I have loved you, that you also love one another.<\/em>\u00a0By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.\u201d<\/em><\/span> (John 13:34-35<\/strong> NASB)<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

He later promised that if we follow His example, of pouring ourselves out for others, His love and His joy would be ours in abundance.<\/p>\n

\u201cJust as the Father has loved Me, I have also loved you; abide in My love. If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love; just as I have kept My Father\u2019s commandments and abide in His love. These things I have spoken to you so that My joy may be in you, and that your joy may be made full. This is My commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you\u201d (John 15:9-12<\/strong> NASB)<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

As we abide in the love of Jesus, His love overflows from our lives to those around us. This yielding and depending on the Holy Spirit keeps us in the experience of His love and gives us His complete joy.<\/p>\n

But following Jesus\u2019 example of being poured out for the sake of others can never happen in our own strength. Loving like Jesus is totally dependent upon His Spirit at work in us to produce fruit designed for loving others.<\/p>\n

Conclusion<\/h3>\n

Kill Joy<\/strong> \u2013 The fastest way to kill your own joy is to focus on you. True joy flows as we delight in the Lord’s nearness and work on behalf of others.<\/p>\n

As we lay aside our own interests, we’re invited to join the Holy Spirit in a dance of love and joy. Rejoicing in our relationship with Jesus, and the overflowing of His love for others, frees us from the need to produce our own happiness. In His strength and guidance, we ask, \u201cLord, who do You want to love through me today?\u201d<\/p>\n

Prayer<\/h3>\n

Lord, receiving Your love and giving it away can never happen without the work of Your Spirit within me. Apart from You, I can do nothing. I don\u2019t want to get in the way anymore. I desire to pour myself out for the spreading of Your love and joy. Please keep me from focusing on me, my duties, my circumstances, my happiness. May the people You bring my way be my highest priority. May I love them with Your love and share the joy of faith in You. <\/em>Amen.<\/em><\/p>\n

Personal Study<\/strong><\/h4>\n

H<\/span>ighlight John 12:1-8<\/strong><\/p>\n

E<\/span>xplain<\/strong>\u00a0it in your own words<\/p>\n

A<\/span>pply<\/strong>\u00a0it to your life<\/p>\n

R<\/span>espond<\/strong>\u00a0to God in prayer\u00a0<\/p>\n

[1] Philippians 1:25<\/p>\n

[2] Exodus 29:41, Numbers 6:17<\/p>\n

Previous posts in our Discipleship Rhythms Series:<\/span><\/p>\n

UP: \u00a0<\/a>God\u2019s Amazing Love<\/a><\/p>\n

UP: God\u2019s Essential Love<\/a><\/p>\n

UP: What Hides God\u2019s Love<\/a><\/p>\n

UP: Christ Lives in Me<\/a><\/p>\n

UP: Raised up with Christ<\/a><\/p>\n

UP: Who\u2019s your Treasure?<\/a><\/p>\n

UP: Obtaining the Joy of Jesus<\/a>\u00a0<\/p>\n

UP: Orienting Life from Above<\/a><\/p>\n

UP: When Things Get Hard<\/a><\/p>\n

UP: Communing with God<\/a><\/p>\n

IN: Receiving God\u2019s Love to Give it Away<\/a><\/p>\n

IN: Having a Love First Mentality<\/a>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Please Check out the new Cola City Podcast<\/a> . Discussions that impact the vision of reaching every man, woman, and child with the gospel.<\/p>\n

Joy in the Journey is about the gladness of God\u2019s nearness in the midst of life\u2019s adventures.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Subscribe below to get email notifications of new posts. We post a few times a month. Thank you for reading.\u00a0<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/em>Novels by the Author:<\/span><\/p>\n

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Rob Buck<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

What happens when a professor figures out how to send messages to his younger self to try and avoid the suicide of his best friend? Did he change more than he bargained for?\u00a0\u00a0Beyond Time<\/a><\/p>\n

By finding two undelivered letters in a old shack deep in the woods, Cassie and Daniel unknowing set off a series of events which uncover a plot to wipe out a whole family\u00a0Hope Remains<\/a><\/p>\n

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A while back, a grey cloud settled over my heart. It blew in suddenly and lingered for a while. My wife confirmed my outward mood matched my inward discouragement. She said it seemed as if someone had thrown a wet blanket on my heart to try and steal my joy.\u00a0 As I shuffled around, what she said resonated, but I had nothing inside to fight it.<\/p>\n

Frankly, the last thing I wanted to do was read scripture, but I knew I needed truth. I asked God to guide me and looked\u00a0at some verses on joy.<\/p>\n

As I read, I was struck by how much Paul cared about the joy of others.<\/p>\n

He wrote to the Corinthians that he was working for their joy.<\/p>\n

But\u00a0I call God as witness to my soul, that\u00a0to spare you I did not come again to\u00a0Corinth. \u00a0Not that we lord it over your faith, but are workers with you for your joy; for in your faith you are standing firm (II Corinthians 1:23-24 NASB).<\/p>\n

And to the Philippians, Paul wrote that he\u2019d continue in the fight for their progress and joy in the faith.<\/p>\n

\u00a0Convinced of this, I know that I will remain and continue with you all for your progress and joy in the faith,\u00a0so that your proud confidence in me may abound in Christ Jesus through my coming to you again (Philippians 1:25-26 NASB).<\/p>\n

What struck me was how committed Paul was to being sure the believers at Corinth and Philippi had a growing joy. He seemed to be equating joy with their progress in the faith. And he was willing to fight for them to have it.\u00a0<\/p>\n

And, as I read what Paul wrote in Philippians 2 about considering others interest above our own, a spark of joy flicked in my heart. Clarity grew and I began to understand some of what had killed my own joy.<\/p>\n

Looking back, I can’t even remember exactly what I was going through, but I had fixated on me and how I was doing. Unaware of the shift in my heart, I had taken up the familiar position of focusing on my own desires for ease of circumstances and comfort. My intense concern for me had zapped my joy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3881,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2482,2187,1343],"tags":[1153,2195,1717,2486,420,2188,2197,2107,2193,1355,1718,2189,2095,2017,945,170,39,1491,58,1047,1600,2192,510,2483,1349,271,7,950,1124,623,631,419,625,2194,2190,2012,1072,1095,28,2485,1345,2196,27,1428,15,2484,2414,630,1215,1990,81],"class_list":["post-3877","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-poured-out","category-loving-like-jesus","category-the-joy-of-serving","tag-abiding","tag-abundant-joy","tag-being-poured-out","tag-building-others-up","tag-complete-joy","tag-consumed-with-jesus","tag-contagious-joy","tag-courageous","tag-depending","tag-drink-offering","tag-empty-ourselves","tag-exodus-2941","tag-experienced-joy","tag-god-with-us","tag-gods-greater-purposes","tag-gods-love","tag-gods-nearness","tag-gods-perspective","tag-gods-presence","tag-grasping-gods-love","tag-greater-purposes","tag-guidance","tag-jesus-christ","tag-john-121-8","tag-john-1334-35","tag-john-159-12","tag-joy","tag-joy-in-his-presence","tag-joy-of-loving","tag-joy-required","tag-joy-stolen","tag-joyful-heart","tag-living-sacrifice","tag-love-overflowing","tag-numbers-617","tag-our-highest-joy","tag-overflowing-joy","tag-philippians-121","tag-philippians-125","tag-philippians-125-26","tag-philippians-217-18","tag-philippians-25-9","tag-philippians-chapter-2","tag-poured-out-as-a-drink-offering","tag-rejoicing","tag-romans-121","tag-sacrifice","tag-strength","tag-strengthen-faith","tag-the-holy-spirit","tag-yielding"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3877","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3877"}],"version-history":[{"count":22,"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3877\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4610,"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3877\/revisions\/4610"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3881"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3877"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3877"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/joy-in-the-journey.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3877"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}