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(The Everlasting Way) You Might want to Pull Over

September 18, 2026 robuck4@aol.com 10 Comments

The Back Story

I’m a convertible guy. Being follically challenged, I love to feel the wind sweeping across my bald head and face. Even in the winter, I’ve been know to put the top down, with the heater on and windows up, just to experience the sensation of being engulfed by the outdoors. I guess you might call a convertible a tamed version of a motorcycle.

A few years ago, before we closed our IT training company, my accountant informed me that our current car, a Sebring convertible, had fully depreciated. She told me I needed to purchase a new company car, or I’d have to pay a lot more taxes. Smiling, I told her I’d be glad to comply. 😊

I had a limited amount of funds but hoped I could find a descent convertible for the money.

Using Carvana, I found a hardtop 2010 BMW convertible for a bit over $20k. And it was in one of my favorite shades of blue. 2010! You might say that is pretty old, but it only had around 38K miles, with a nice body and no history of wrecks or damage from road salt.

After the purchase, I drove it up to our regular mechanic. When I asked him, “Do you work on BM..” I couldn’t get the words out of my mouth before he gave me an emphatic. “No!”

I found another mechanic down the road that said they were not afraid of them, but that there may be situations where I would need to take it to the dealership, a scenario I hoped would never happen.

Stalled at Dawn

Not too long ago, I was driving the BMW to my early morning breakfast with my son, Michael, and our friend Seth. Soon after I navigated onto the highway, I heard an alert sound (like a doorbell) and a yellow temperature light appeared on the dashboard.

Looking at the temperature gauge, it showed that the needle was barely past the bottom temperature of 160°, probably 180°. I wondered for a moment if it was a faulty alert, but as I slowed down, approaching the first exit, a new alert sounded and the red temperature light came on. The car went into a sort of “safe mode” and slowly allowed me to pull off at the exit.

Without going into a ton of detail, between Michael, Seth, and my friend Dean, I made the meeting and eventually drove it to the auto shop after stopping multiple times to add water and allowing the engine to cool.

You might want to pull over

Later in the day, I was coming home after picking up our grandsons from school, and I got a call from the auto shop. The technician asked if it was a good time to talk. I told him I was driving, but that I could talk.

“You might want to pull over,” he advised.

That didn’t sound good to me, but I kept on driving. He ended up telling me I had a blown head gasket, which he said they couldn’t fix.

However, if I wanted them to install a new, out of the crate 2010 engine, along with a new radiator, water pump, etc., they could do it for $37.000!!! I wish he had just said we couldn’t fix it and left it at that.

I don’t even remember what I said to him after that.

Stunned, I hung up and called Joseph, a friend of mine who works on European cars on the side. I told him what had happened. To my relief, he told me he could fix the head gasket, but it sounded like that would still be a lot of money.

But he also wondered if it might be the water pump. He told me my model has a mechanical pump which is known to fail at 50 to 60 thousand miles. My mileage was 65k.

I called the shop back to inquire about that, but they assured me it was not the water pump. 😑

Lee on the knee, Phil on the hill

When our grandsons and I got home, my bride, whom they call BeBe, had plenty of fun and snacks planned for them.

This gave me a moment to lick my wounds. I could sense a mounting stress invading my soul I hadn’t felt in a while. Almost like a mini-PTSD.

However, after spending just a little while with a three-year-old and a six-year-old, their childlike hearts wore off on me.

Like their dad, Nicholas and Zachary are extremely ticklish on their knees. So, I took time with each of them on my lap, using my fingers to walk up their legs from their ankles to their knees, where I jumped up and down as Lee on the knee and Phil on the hill. 🤣

It was hilarious. We all laughed so much!

Before long, my finger man walked back to their feet and became Pete on the feet, then Ben on the chin, Rose on the nose and Kit in the pit. I tried to stop, but Nicholas kept asking for more people to jump. 😁

“Let the little children alone… for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” (Matthew 19:14)

It’s amazing how this laughter chased the stress away!

The Next Morning

From my journal:

Morning Lord,

I woke up this morning with a deep sense of Your nearness. Sure, I’d love it if Joseph could figure out how to get my car running again for a reasonable price.

However, there’s a part about not having it in the driveway that’s a bit of a release. It’s one less thing to maintain, one less thing that could break, one less tie to the temporal world.

This seems weird, but it was truly how I was feeling.

Then I prayed a very freeing prayer.

Prayer

Lord, I truly give this car to You. Do with it as You want. And please give us wisdom on what to do, transportation wise, if it’s no longer to be ours.

Thank you so much for giving me an awareness of the joys of childlikeness yesterday and the peace of your nearness today.

I love You Father,

Amen.

Reflections

My soul seemed truly washed after bringing the situation to God.

Therefore, humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you at the proper time, casting all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you (I Peter 5:6-7).

I felt like I had truly given this care to my Lord

Two days later, we were getting ready to go to one of our other grandson’s soccer games when I got a call from Joseph:

“Hello.”

“Well, it won’t be $37,000,” he said. “It’s the water pump.”

He told me that with parts and labor he could have me driving again for a tad over $1k.

I felt immense joy. Because I do believe I’d done my best to surrender the outcome to the Lord, it felt as if He was giving me a gift right back.

I told him to go ahead. Within the week, he’d completed it and I picked it up and drove it home. Top down.

Take Aways:

Present problems can sometimes bring back feelings of stress from the past
Spending time playing with children and laughing can bring a lighthearted joy that can melt away feelings of stress
Surrendering attachments to temporal items brings tremendous freedom to my soul

I should always, always talk to God about the broken parts of this world

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. ⁷And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:6-7).

I’m very thankful to have a least a bit more time driving a convertible 😎

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Note: Unless otherwise noted, all referenced Scripture is from the NASB 1995 Version of the Bible.

Other posts in our Everlasting Way Series:

Learning How to Overcome Emotional Numbness

Embracing God’s Amazing Love

Are we More Like Batman or Spider-Man

Transforming Awareness: The Power of God’s Love

Minding Your Busyness

Our Deepest Longings Filled

Rules Don’t Rule

Mice in the Sock Drawer

Turning Gainers into Drainers

Until the Darkness Fades

Courage Rising

Recovering

Celebrating with Joy – In Memory of a Friend

Dying to Self

Loving without Expecting Anything in Return

We are Barabbas

The Joy of Being Poured Out

Like a Child: The Way Back to Wonder

Loving Like Joe

Rob Buck

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This collection of devotionals chronicles a heartfelt journey from a life of striving and self-reliance to one of growing surrender and trust in God.

Through personal stories of family struggles, cancer, grief, and unexpected trials, the devotions show that true, unshakeable joy comes not from perfect circumstances, but from the constant, loving presence of Jesus Christ.

It’s an invitation to learn to let go of our burdens and find growing peace in God’s greater story.

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Because joy is rooted in God and is eternal, it doesn’t ebb and flow with the waves of circumstances. In fact, as we grow in our understanding of joy, we can even experience it more acutely when life is hard. Why? Because God uses trials to conform us into the image of Christ. With this awareness, which gives us glimpses of God’s greater purposes, we rejoice because of His masterful work to free us from needing anything but Him.

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Fearless

(In the Moments) The Cake Maker’s Blunder

November 13, 2024 robuck4@aol.com Leave a comment

The bride had waited for this moment. She’d be marrying the man of her dreams. And she had the perfect verse for her wedding cake. There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear (I John 4:18 NASB).

She struggled with fear and wanted God’s perfect love to cast it out.

Wedding week had arrived. Final preparations were underway.

She received a call from the cake maker. “Are you absolutely sure you want I John 4:18 on your wedding cake?” he asked.

“Very sure. It’s one of my favorites.”

“Okay,” the baker responded. “It’s your wedding.”

The bride didn’t have the brain space to give the call much thought, but later she wished she’d followed up.

The cake maker wasn’t familiar with the Bible. He thought 1 John meant the first book of John he came across. So, the surprised bride got John 4:18 on her cake instead, “for you have had five husbands, and the one whom you now have is not your husband; this you have said truly.”

The bride felt deeply humiliated. Eventually, the couple laughed about the cake maker’s mistake. And they continued to ask the Lord to show them how perfect love casts out fear.

How Does Perfect Love Cast Out Fear?

Perfect Love

The Greek word John used for “perfect” means completed, finished, lacking nothing.

God’s love is perfect, like a swaddled child, safe and warm in its mother’s embrace. God’s presence yields a transcendent peace which surpasses all comprehension in the face of any fear [1].

Paul describes the quality of God’s perfect love, in Ephesians 3:14-19. He prays we might comprehend it, though it surpasses our knowledge.

For this reason I bend my knees before the Father, 15 from whom every family in heaven and on earth derives its name, 16 that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with power through His Spirit in the inner self, 17 so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; and that you, being rooted and grounded in love, 18 may comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and height and depth, 19 and to know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled to all the fullness of God.

When I read Paul’s description of God’s love, I picture a love as deep and long and wide as the ocean and as high as the sky.

God’s perfect love truly surpasses our knowledge. Paul prays that what won’t fit in our heads will come alive in our hearts, our love receptor. [2]

Disagreeing with Lies

God’s love grounds us. So, it’s no wonder our enemy uses doubt and fear, trying to block our awareness of it.

As much as God is love, Satan is fear. He’s a defeated foe and his tactics don’t change. He relentlessly uses deception and empty fear, luring us away from resting in God’s great love for us.

But our weapons of truth and prayer are divinely powerful to demolish these fortified strongholds, destroying his work in our lives and casting out his fear.

For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh, 4 for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but divinely powerful for the destruction of fortresses. 5 We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ (II Corinthians 10:3-5 NASB).

Our job is to take every thought captive. Soaking in the truth of God’s perfect love, we learn to disagree with Satan’s lies and cast away his fear.

Remaining in Perfect Love

Besides praying for our hearts to be enlightened with God’s perfect love, and disagreeing with Satan’s lies, Jesus gives us explicit instruction on how we can continually live in His perfect love.

“As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. 10 If you keep my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commands and remain in his love. 11 I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete. 12 My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.” (John 15:9-12 NIV)

In these vital words, Jesus helps us understand the depth of His perfect love toward us. “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you.” Love can’t be more perfect.

Then He tells us how to abide or live in His love. To remain in His perfect love, which dispels fear, we’re to love others as He’s loved us. “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.”

And the love we’re to love with comes from Him. “We love, because He first loved us” (I John 4:19 NASB). (The verse after the bride’s verse).

The great cadence of our lives, which dispels every fear, is to receive God’s perfect love and give it away.

Challenge

Can you identify a lie which the enemy uses to keep you from fully experiencing the love of God in Christ?

It’s important to identify these viscous strongholds which have created ruts in our hearts. Our adversary is only out to steal, kill, and destroy us. [3]

For me, I’m easily seduced by the lie that my value is based on what I do.

How about you? Do you have lies you’ve agreed with and have allowed strongholds to remain?

Now is the time. Stand firm in the authority of God’s truth, despite feelings and swirling half-truths. Speak the truth and pray.

Believe the words of Jesus in John 16:23b-24: “Truly, truly, I say to you, if you ask the Father for anything in My name, He will give it to you. Until now you have asked for nothing in My name; ask and you will receive, so that your joy may be made full.”

Pray and keep on praying. The healing He affords, in lies we’ve believed, requires fervent attention to Christ and His ways, disagreeing with the lie of our advisory and agreeing with the eternal truth of God.

The love of God, His love for us, casts out all fear.